LiFe iS FaiR… TRuST Me!
Jangan pernah merasa hidup ini ga adil. Manusia itu cuma punya sedikit pengetahuan dibanding apa yang Tuhan tau. Kadang yang menurut kita sangat mengecewakan, menyedihkan, unfair justru adalah yang terbaik buat kita.
Percaya aja kalo kita akan selalu menempuh arah yang memang sudah seharusnya kita jalani. Simply because that’s our life path. When something changes, bukan tanpa alasan. When people change, juga bukan tanpa alasan. When you have to face the changes, pasti ada alasannya.
I just experienced a life-changing situation. Awalnya semua nampak ga adil. Semua kayak berjalan berlawanan arah dengan apa yang aku mau. Everything seemed to fall apart and how I wished to drag all the people that cause it down to the same lowest-low like I was. I did do stupid things that I’m gonna regret for the rest of my life. But what I did not realized is how much God loves me. Even though I did a lot of things I shouldn’t have done!
Tamparan hidup itu perlu. Just like what my family always say to me, “Kamu selama ini selalu dapat apa yang kamu mau dengan mudah, well this is the real life. Ga selalu memihak pada kita. Tapi itu yang buat kita kuat dan dewasa”. And I was well slapped! So hard that my whole body flew and crashed. But setelah itu aku baru tau bahwa ternyata sehancur2nya aku, aku masih bisa berdiri, mengobati semuanya dan kembali ke sediakala, hanya lebih kuat dan lebih tanggap, untuk setidaknya bisa mengindar tamparan hidup berikutnya.
For my case, it was love. For others bisa jobs, family, health issue, school.. you name it. Masalah bisa datang dari mana aja. Hehehe, bet there are lots of versions of my infamous break up stories out there (GR bgt diomongin!!! Huhuhuhu) but somehow, I wish everybody who knows it can learn something from it. Ibarat sinetron, segapenting2nya pasti ada dooonk sesuatu hal yang bisa kita petik hikmahnya.. ahuehuehue. That like what Cher sings, we have to believe that there is love after love. There is ‘the one’ after ‘the one before the one’. You will eventually be with the rite one, because he/she is rite for you.
Me and Him ‘hopefully’ have found our rite ones. I’m happy he’s happy/happier. I’m happy that I’m happier. And that’s should be a good enough reason why we should not be together in the first place. Because we are happier not to be together! Perhaps we could be ourselves finally, without compromising things, without lies, without sacrificing anything, without hurting each other, without tears, without anger, without pain. So there I have it… life is fair!
So for those people yang baru putus ato ga jadi nikah juga… (huehueheuheu) don’t be sad. Yakin aja, kita kadang gatau apa2. Tapi semuanya pasti lebih jelas. Just enjoy the journey. Tanda2 Tuhan itu bertebaran di sekeliling kita. Kalo kita minta sungguh2 pasti apa yang kita mau akan dikabulin, sebaik2nya menurut Tuhan ttg kita.
Kalo untuk aku, aku sadar aku dijalan yang benar, saat segala dendam hilang, saat luka hati sembuh, saat aku bisa tersenyum even when I heard bad things about me being circulated, even when I was scrutinized in a blog… (hey girl, I read your post. It’s cool. Your opinion is yours to have! If you think I’m a fake so be it! Family always come first for you and all of us, but it’s still good though to hear both sides of the stories. ☺), even saat beberapa teman harus menjauh (it’s your call. I may react the same way. Take whatever side! I’m alrite…), even when I heard his wedding plan (Sincerely, congratulation!), saat aku bisa menjalani tantangan hidup baru aku dengan semangat baru karena aku tau.. this is my way!
Finally I realized, love is not everything but it’s love that make everything possible!
Rise and Shine!!!
RiMa
May 19th, 2007 at 4:08 am
Quote from a friend fs shoutout:
“andai aku dapat memohon agar hidupku sempurna, kemungkinan ini sangat menggiurkan, tapi aku akan merasa hampa, karena hidup tak lagi mengajariku apapun”